This is mostly going to be dating related, so if you’re not down with that, you’re welcome to leave now.
I’m sick of people thinking that a ‘good morning’ text is romance. That changing your relationship status on Facebook is the defining moment. That the more Instagram posts you have of you and your other is equal to how much you love them. I’m tired of this ridiculous cycle, and I’m especially sad that this is what dating has become.
I want to be romanced. I want to romance them! (totally a two-way street) I want to worry less about how people perceive my relationship via social media and worry more about how I can make them feel appreciated.
I’ll know I’ve found a keeper when we can get through an entire meal without checking our cell phones. I really just want that ‘fuck yeah’ moment. Like, when i think of that person, my immediate reaction is ‘fuck yes’. And to any scenario. Fuck yes I want to spend time with them, fuck yes I want to skydive with you, fuck yes I want to eat so much sushi I feel like I’m going to explode, fuck yes let’s go to Legoland/Aquarium/AGO/ROM/dirty hole in the wall bar. And I want them to feel the same.
Being single is tough. Or maybe I’m just beginning to really hate social media.